TV judge is just another Mesa mom sort of
If anyone asks, Lynn Toler of Mesa says she’s a stay-at-home mom, but turn to Channel 10 (KSAZ) at 1:30 p.m. weekdays and you’ll see her at work as the feisty judge on ”Divorce Court.”
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Brad Pitt & Angelia Jolie – Brangelina ‘Split’ story all a sham?
To go by the latest reports, the rumours about an impending split-up between Pitt and Jolie have come out to be………….well, rumours. For the last few days, the grapevine circles were all abuzz with the news of this hi-profile divorce and those wont to live on a regular diet of gossips, were having a breezy [...] SHARETHIS.addEntry({ title: “Brad Pitt & Angelia Jolie – Brangelina ‘Split’ story all …
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Single Mother Shares Life Story About Raising Four Children Alone
Says parents have “one shot” to do their best and give it their all in new book. (PRWeb Jan 31, 2010) Read the full story at http://www.prweb.com/releases/2010/01/prweb3539844.htm
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To transform divorce pain into life wisdom, we need to understand our divorce drama. One excellent resource I highly recommend on this subject is Debbie Ford’s powerful book, Spiritual Divorce: Divorce as a Catalyst for an Extraordinary Life. The process is simple, unconscious and very powerful. Things happen in our life and we assign meaning to these events in order to understand them. So we begin to write the scripts, or our relationship “story” is born.
We start our screenplays often when we are very young children. For example, the young girl whose father travels all the time and breaks his promise to be at her ballet recital. The script and plotline of “Men don’t show up for me” gets rewritten. This takes place at a subconscious level. So the lifelong casting call goes out looking for men to play that part again, and again. The plot is played out with new characters, or the same old characters in new ways, with you in the starring role. All the while the 6-year-old girl in her tutu and ballet slippers sits in the director’s chair.
At one level our stories provide security and identity. Yet they become a limitation and keep us confined to a narrow range of what’s possible in our lives. Some people get so attached to and identified with their stories they are reluctant to let them go. By recognizing our divorce drama, we can start to write new stories. Instead of our movie being a melodrama, we can turn it into an adventure thriller, or a heartfelt comedy or love story. Here are some ways to break free of your divorce drama.
1. Read the Script
Stop and identify your relationship story. Who have you cast as the villain and the victim? What have you assigned as the motivations of the main characters? Write out your plot synopsis in your journal so you can clearly distinguish your story. Knowing your story will help ensure it doesn’t remain your default mode of operation. Spiritual Divorce has some excellent exercises to help you do this.
2. Take a Meeting
Take a big step back from the drama of your divorce. Realize we are all co-creators of our reality. At some spiritual level, we signed onto this project. It is a co-production between ourselves and our former spouses.
To harvest the wisdom of life’s dramas, my mentor, Barbara De Angelis, recommends asking “If I ordered this experience, what was I thinking?” Ask your higher self what is the lesson you are intended to receive from this situation? Take the time to ask, and the still quiet voice of your own inner wisdom will start to answer.
3. Reconsider Your Director
Who is directing your movie right now? Is it a scared little 8-year-old boy or an angry 5-year-old girl who didn’t get her way? If so, it’s time to take them out of the director’s chair and assign a bit part instead. To break free of the divorce drama, your director needs to be a grown-up who is ready and willing to create the life you deserve to have.
4. Review Your Movie
You can use your divorce drama as either an excuse or an inspiration. The next step is to review your movie. Would you give it two thumbs up? Is it one you’d love to see over and over again? So often, people who stay stuck in their stories use it as an excuse to blame others, to remain a victim, or to play small.
Does your story stir some anger in you? Great! Use it to tap into your passion and take action to break a limiting pattern, or release a situation that doesn’t support you? The bottom line is each and every day we write a new script. It can keep us mired in the past, or it can motivate us towards a new future. The choice is up to you.
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Most of us are well aware of the high divorce rate in our country. More than likely you have known someone who has gone through a divorce. Yet, why is it when we find ourselves getting divorced, we feel like the only one? Suddenly you can feel so alone. You are experiencing a wide range of feelings and emotions, as if you are on a roller coaster ride. You talk to your family and friends. They offer their advice, opinions of your ex-spouse and try to empathize. You are thankful for their support, yet you desire to talk with people who can understand.
There is a need to relate to others who can identify with what you are feeling and experiencing. As much as your family and friends would like to help and support you, for more details visit to www.art-of-astrology.com unless they have been through a divorce themselves they can not truly relate.
A Divorce Recovery Group
When my husband and I separated, my children were 4 years and 2 years old. I had only lived in Colorado for 2 years. I was a stay at home mom. We lived in a relatively new neighborhood with young families. My friends were the play group moms and preschool moms. I did not know anyone getting divorced. My mother and father divorced in 1969, so my mother could relate somewhat.
A year after we separated my husband decided to “move on.” It was January 5, 2001 and 2 days later while sitting in church, the bulletin had an announcement for a Divorce Recovery group beginning on Jan. 16th. I knew I needed support in this area to get through the road that lay ahead of me.
Benefits of Divorce Recovery Group
Recently when I was talking to one of my friends from my Divorce Recovery group, she shared with me how scared she was to attend the Divorce Recovery group. She said all she had wanted to do was to isolate her self. My friend told me how hard it was for her to walk into the group that first night. It was extremely uncomfortable for her, but she took that step of faith.
Today, she would tell you how grateful she is that she went, despite her fears. She realizes she recovered more quickly from having attended the Divorce Recovery group. I agree that my recovery process would have taken longer without Divorce Recovery. The content taught in the group, the lectures, the book, was all valuable.
My friend and I agreed by far the most valuable aspect of the group was the relationships. Divorce Recovery groups provide the opportunity to meet other people who are in the same place as you are, crushed, wounded, for more details visit to www.positive-idea.com bitter, sad, and fearful. Developing relationships through sharing your stories, your pain, your fears, and your accomplishments creates a bond. Meeting people in their time of weakness allows you to connect with each other in a way that only others who have walked the path of divorce can truly understand.
Best Advice
Some of the best advice I could ever give someone going through a divorce would be to find a support group in your area or on-line to attend/join. Even if you are afraid, I encourage you to step out of your comfort zone. It may be among the best decisions you ever make. Do it for yourself and those whose lives you impact.
If you need help finding a Divorce Recovery Group read my article on “How to Find a Divorce Recovery Group in Your Area”. Blessings to you on your path to recovery.
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A parady of tlc’s ‘A Wedding Story’ and ‘A Baby Story’. This show tells the story of a couple who’s lives have separated and need a divorce.
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www.formendivorce.com Learn some great divorce tactics for men. Men are at a disadvantage in divorce. But with insider knowledge and preparation men can come out well.
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